One question I think most Christians ask at one
point or another in their walk with Christ is, “How do I know God’s will for
this particular decision that I face?”
Some decisions are harder than others. Every decision should be bathed in prayer. (And when appropriate, fasting.) As you pray, below are four questions to ask yourself to help determine God’s will. The first three of these were taught to me by a retired pastor and mentor, Bro. Melvin Fanning. I added the fourth question. As I reflect on past occasions when I have made a poor decision, I can see where I did not address one or more of these questions adequately:
Some decisions are harder than others. Every decision should be bathed in prayer. (And when appropriate, fasting.) As you pray, below are four questions to ask yourself to help determine God’s will. The first three of these were taught to me by a retired pastor and mentor, Bro. Melvin Fanning. I added the fourth question. As I reflect on past occasions when I have made a poor decision, I can see where I did not address one or more of these questions adequately:
1) Is it permissible according to Scripture?
Very simply, God will never call us to
do anything in contradiction to His Word.
2) Is it possible? This is based on the principle that where God
leads He equips and provides. This is
not to say He will provide every single thing we need up front. He does like us to walk by faith after-all! But it is
to say if it is God’s will He will make it possible for us to take the first
step. The resources will be
available. The timing will be
right. But what if you feel a strong
call to something, and God just doesn’t seem to be opening the door? Another mentor of mine is fond of saying, “It
may be the right thing, but it may not be the
right time.”
3) Is the calling persistent? The Scripture says that God does not repent
of a calling. Any call that is truly
from God will not go away. It behooves
us, then, not to rush into things.
Wait. Pray. Give the Holy Spirit time to confirm in your
heart what God is calling you to do. If
time goes by and the call is as strong as ever, then go for it. If the burden fades over time, it is not
truly a call of God.